This blog post from Patrick Rothfuss made me feel a little better about my life.  Not because he's seemingly lamenting the changes in his life due to successfully publishing a pretty good novel, but because it sorta makes a compelling case for just writing for yourself--write what you like, read it, share it with friends, write more.  Publishing, as tough as it is, opens the door to a darker, different world.
It was linked from a post on George R.R. Martin's blog.  I'm on Book 4 there, and I feel like I have a lot to talk about with other people (read: John and Slaps) who have read the series.  In a nutshell:  I think the series does some amazing things for fantasy while still somewhat falling prey to the perils of overserialization and indulgence.  But unlike Robert Jordan, I don't think I'll be putting this one down.